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Is Summer a Good Time for a Psychoeducational Evaluation?
As the school year comes to a close, many parents find themselves reflecting on the academic, emotional, and social challenges their child experienced throughout the year. Perhaps report cards revealed ongoing struggles despite effort. Maybe teacher conferences raised concerns about attention, learning, or executive functioning. For many families, these concerns lead to an important question: Should we schedule a psychoeducational evaluation this summer, or wait until the sch
Christina Massari
Jun 97 min read


ADHD in Women Is Not What We Thought: What New Research Reveals About Hormones, Symptoms, and Treatment
But a growing body of research, including a recent study published in the Journal of Attention Disorders, is reshaping what we understand about ADHD in women. If you’re a neurodivergent adult woman—or someone who suspects you might be—this research is not just interesting. It’s validating. It helps explain why your symptoms may feel inconsistent, misunderstood, or dismissed altogether.
Christina Massari
May 285 min read


ADHD Isn’t Just About Attention: Why Emotional Struggles May Be the Missing Link
For years, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) has been defined by three core symptoms: inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. If your child struggles to focus, sits still with difficulty, or acts before thinking, ADHD may come to mind quickly. But what if those aren’t the whole story?
Christina Massari
May 215 min read


Why “Trying Harder” Is Not an Intervention
Many parents of neurodiverse children have heard the same refrain sometimes from teachers, sometimes from family, and sometimes from well-meaning professionals: “They just need to try harder.” It often comes packaged as encouragement. The implication is that motivation is the missing ingredient, that effort alone will close the gap between expectations and performance.
Christina Massari
May 145 min read


Preparing Neurodiverse Kids for End-of-Year Transitions: A Practical, Compassionate Guide for Parents
As the school year winds down, many families look forward to warmer weather, relaxed schedules, and a well-earned break. But for neurodiverse children—especially those with ADHD, autism, learning differences, or sensory processing differences—end-of-year transitions can feel less like a celebration and more like a disruption. Routines shift. Expectations change. Familiar teachers and support staff disappear. Predictability fades.
Christina Massari
May 126 min read


Helping Kids Understand Their Brains: Explaining ADHD, Autism, and Learning Differences
Following a psychoeducational evaluation, parents often ask, “How do I share these results with my child?”. Below are conversation scripts parents can use to explain common neurodevelopmental differences to children. These are not meant to be memorized word-for-word. Instead, they provide language that is supportive, accurate, and strengths-based, while helping children understand their brains without shame.
Christina Massari
Apr 216 min read


Cognitive Disengagement Syndrome: What Parents of Neurodivergent Children Need to Know
f your child often seems “elsewhere,” slow to get started, mentally foggy, or quietly overwhelmed rather than disruptive, you may have encountered a set of traits that are still poorly understood and frequently overlooked. Many parents describe their child as bright and thoughtful, yet chronically disengaged, exhausted by school demands, or unable to sustain mental effort in ways that don’t look like classic ADHD. Researchers have begun to use the term Cognitive Disengagement
Christina Massari
Mar 246 min read


Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria and ADHD: Understanding the Pain Beneath the Reaction
For many neurodivergent individuals with ADHD, children and adults alike, emotional pain can arrive suddenly, intensely, and without warning. A brief comment from a partner. A delayed text from a friend. Constructive feedback at work. A child’s frustrated tone. What may seem small or manageable to others can feel overwhelming—like a wave of shame, panic, or despair that takes over your entire nervous system. If this experience feels familiar, you may be encountering Rejection
Christina Massari
Mar 196 min read


What the New Study on Touch Sensitivity in ADHD Means for You
If you or someone you know has ever felt overwhelmed by the feeling of clothes on your skin, hated tags, or felt more bothered by touch than others seem to be, you’re not alone — and recent research supports that this is real and measurable in the brain. A new study published in BMC Psychiatry looked at how adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) process touch differently from adults without ADHD.
Christina Massari
Mar 176 min read


Why Adults with ADHD Often Crave More Relationship Support Than They Feel They Get
Romantic relationships are some of the most fulfilling, complex, and emotionally demanding parts of adult life. For neurodivergent adults—especially those with ADHD these dynamics can feel even more intense. A new study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships sheds light on one of the most painful experiences many adults with ADHD report: wanting support from a partner, trying to express that need, and still feeling emotionally shortchanged.
Christina Massari
Mar 135 min read


Why ADHD Diagnoses Are Increasing
ADHD is one of the most commonly diagnosed neurodevelopmental conditions in children worldwide. Rates of diagnosis have climbed substantially over the past decade. What emerges from the science is nuanced and important: the rise reflects changes in professional practice, societal awareness, educational expectations, diagnostic systems, and access to support — not a simple “epidemic” of disease.
Christina Massari
Mar 106 min read


Processing Speed, Working Memory, and Attention: How These Skills Differ, How They Overlap, and Why the Distinction Matters for Your Child
When children struggle with learning, routines, or follow-through, adults are often given a cluster of terms: attention, working memory, processing speed, or an overlap. These terms are frequently used interchangeably, even though they refer to different brain-based functions. For parents, this can feel confusing and overwhelming. If everything looks the same on the surface—unfinished work, missed instructions, slow output—how are you supposed to know what is actually going o
Christina Massari
Feb 176 min read


Processing Speed: What It Is, What It Looks Like When It’s Hard, and How to Support Your Child Without Pressure
Processing speed is one of the most misunderstood cognitive skills. It is frequently confused with intelligence, motivation, attention, or even working memory. In reality, processing speed is about how efficiently the brain takes in information, makes sense of it, and produces a response.
Christina Massari
Feb 127 min read


How to Support Working Memory at Home During the Winter Months
Winter is a unique season for families. The colder temperatures, shorter days, disrupted routines, and long stretches indoors all shape the rhythms of daily life. For many neurodiverse children—those with ADHD, autism, learning differences, language delays, sensory processing needs, or executive functioning challenges—winter brings both new opportunities and new obstacles. One area where this shift is especially noticeable is working memory.
Christina Massari
Feb 107 min read


Working Memory: What It Is, What It Looks Like When It’s Hard, and How to Support Your Child Gently and Effectively
If you have ever watched your child forget instructions moments after hearing them, lose track of what they were doing mid-task, or struggle to hold information in mind long enough to use it, you may have been told, “It’s a working memory issue.” For many parents, that phrase can feel vague, confusing, or even alarming. What exactly is working memory?
Christina Massari
Feb 57 min read


Snow Days and Unexpected Cancellations: How to Build Flexibility Into Routines for Neurodiverse Children
Winter brings many joys—snowy landscapes, cozy evenings, and festive activities—but it also brings unpredictability and opportunities for flexibility. Snow days, icy roads, school closures, and unexpected cancellations can disrupt even the most well-planned routines. For neurodiverse children, who often thrive on predictability and structure, these disruptions can be particularly challenging.
Christina Massari
Dec 22, 20256 min read


Helping Kids With Organization When Winter Gear, Layers, and Holiday Gifts Add Chaos
Winter can be a magical season—snowflakes, cozy sweaters, hot cocoa, family gatherings, and holiday lights. But for many families, especially those raising neurodiverse children, it’s also a season of added chaos. Suddenly, there are boots, coats, hats, gloves, scarves, snow pants, extra socks, and jackets cluttering entryways. The laundry seems endless. School bags get lost under piles of holiday gifts.
Christina Massari
Dec 16, 20257 min read


Why Are Some Kids With ADHD Prone to Disruptive Behavior?
If you’re a parent or teacher of a child with ADHD, you may have experienced moments when their behavior feels like it’s always on the edge. Maybe they shout out in class, refuse to follow directions, or suddenly storm out of a room. You’re left wondering: “Is this just ADHD… or is my child deliberately being disruptive?”
Christina Massari
Oct 31, 20257 min read


ADHD and the Myth of Laziness
As a parent, few things sting more than hearing your child labeled “lazy.” You might notice your child struggling to start homework, taking forever to get dressed, or losing steam halfway through a chore. It can look like they don’t care or aren’t trying. But the truth is, what looks like laziness on the outside is often something very different happening inside the ADHD brain.
Christina Massari
Oct 29, 20255 min read


The Role of Executive Functioning in Academic Success
As a parent, you’ve probably seen the gap between what your child knows and what they can actually show. Maybe your child understands math concepts perfectly in class but forgets to turn in homework. Or perhaps they can tell you the steps of writing an essay but fall apart when faced with the blank page. This gap is often explained by a set of skills called executive functioning skills. They are similar to the brain’s “management system" or "control room".
Christina Massari
Oct 27, 20256 min read
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